Life

So as you may already know me and Jenisse have really started a real relationship in the long distnat type. most people accually do not approve of long distant because of the things you miss because you aren't able to be with each other. I do belive being unable to kiss or hug you signficant other does put a diffrent spin on your relationship. Well today I was watching "True Life: I am relocating for love" and really almost started taking notes. But I did notice one thing, that me and Jenisse are deffinitly on a better track then what these kids were. I mean I do belive that seeing someone and talking to them is diffrent. This is why, on the phone or even on Skype or OovoO you can controll what the other person sees. Unlike these people in the show me and Jenisse have seen the best and worst in each other.

     I do believe this helps a couple really trend on the healthier side of a relationship so I do think that me or her moving to the other state wouldn't be so bad. Personally I would love for her to come up here but I am really trying to help weigh all the options for both of us though My main thing that is really hard to cope with is the heat and the way the jobs work down there. My cuz was telling me that down there they are a "right to work" state. He explained that means that they think if you want to work y ou will work as we say, example is if you work for $18/hr and they cut your pay you just bite the bullet or quit. This is kinda smart as far as a company cause you can get workers to work cheap but personally unless necessary I wouldn't do it, it's just morally wrong. But I know she is conformable there so it's kinda hard to keep that up as well. But up here there is issues to besides the winter, which is a problem it self, she might not be able to get the schooling she would like the way she wants.  So I am not sure what is best for us, but I know we are best for each other.