I have a general question to post up more of an idea and the answer. What do you do when you find someone that is perfect for you but you can't be with them. And to future explain this situation, the girl I am currently living with in Florida is the girl I like. But here is how I see it we both think each other are cute. But that is the end of it, I see what type of guys she likes and it's definitely not me. I try to stay positive but the negativity does happen to get a hold of me a lot fast. Not to mention the fact that we flirt with each other all the time. And also my worst half gets the better of me and I actually get jealous that she is talking to some other guys that I know, but I don't wanna say jealous more like I am concerned cause I know that two out of three of them are scum bags but can act good for a little while. And some of them it's not a like a personal things just that, ok I guess I am jealous. So most there is a lot of times with her where I am trying to stay positive but in the back of my head I am saying that I am not good enough for her and she likes some other dude in NY and has a boyfriend. I am concerned about my mental status here.  So the question is that do you do to someone who you like and know would be a perfect girl for you? The answer I would get if i asked someone or if someone read this stupid blog is "Just tell her" but any realist will know that If you tell someone that you like them and the feeling isn't mutual that things can get weird and you lose that friend. Also I am talking in person not on the computer or text, lets be real those are easy to forget or "lost"